Episode Playlist
Standards, Self-Worth & The Psychology Behind Human Behaviour( 0:32:5)
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Margot explores why people confuse attention with love, how to discover your unique superpower, what happens when we live without personal standards, and the surprising psychology behind gossip and constant interruption. Margot is our go to for life problems. Listeners are encouraged to write in with a problem they are stuck on, and we will “Ask Margot” to provide sound, real and insightful advice.
This episode was first broadcast on Coast Access Radio, a Community Access Media Alliance station amplifying the voices of Kāpiti and Horowhenua. Supported by NZ On Air. Visit coastaccessradio.org.nz
Published: 6/08/2026 11:00:00 a.m.
The Art of Connection, Confidence & Emotional Maturity( 0:29:12)
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Margot explores what really captures someone's attention romantically, the forgotten rules of being a great dinner guest, and why so many people carry guilt they were never meant to carry. Margot also takes a deep dive into emotional addiction in relationships, the difference between love and obsession, and what emotional maturity actually looks like when life becomes difficult. Margot is our go to for life problems. Listeners are encouraged to write in with a problem they are stuck on, and we will “Ask Margot” to provide sound, real and insightful advice.
This episode was first broadcast on Coast Access Radio, a Community Access Media Alliance station amplifying the voices of Kāpiti and Horowhenua. Supported by NZ On Air. Visit coastaccessradio.org.nz
Published: 23/07/2026 11:00:00 a.m.
Overthinking, Stress & Judging the Wealthy( 0:27:12)
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Margot answers questions about recognising entitled behaviour, overcoming self-doubt, understanding stress, and challenging our assumptions about wealthy people. A practical and thought-provoking discussion on self-awareness and perspective. Margot is our go to for life problems. Listeners are encouraged to write in with a problem they are stuck on, and we will “Ask Margot” to provide sound, real and insightful advice.
This episode was first broadcast on Coast Access Radio, a Community Access Media Alliance station amplifying the voices of Kāpiti and Horowhenua. Supported by NZ On Air. Visit coastaccessradio.org.nz
Published: 9/07/2026 11:00:00 a.m.
Faith, Self-Doubt & Being ‘Too Much’( 0:27:25)
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How impossible is it to believe in God? What do you do when people tell you you're "too much"? And how can hidden subconscious standards keep us stuck in self-doubt? Margot explores faith, self-acceptance, and practical ways to stop second-guessing yourself and move forward with confidence. Margot is our go to for life problems. Listeners are encouraged to write in with a problem they are stuck on, and we will “Ask Margot” to provide sound, real and insightful advice.
This episode was first broadcast on Coast Access Radio, a Community Access Media Alliance station amplifying the voices of Kāpiti and Horowhenua. Supported by NZ On Air. Visit coastaccessradio.org.nz
Published: 25/06/2026 11:00:00 a.m.
Motivation, Faith & Living in the Present( 0:26:17)
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In this episode, we explore some of the deeper questions around what drives us and how we make sense of the world. From asking whether money is the only true motivator, to reflecting on why prayer doesn’t always seem to be answered, we step into conversations that don’t have simple explanations. We also take a look at understanding “The Word” and what it can mean in everyday life, along with how to stay grounded and present in the moment. Margot is our go to for life problems. Listeners are encouraged to write in with a problem they are stuck on, and we will “Ask Margot” to provide sound, real and insightful advice.
This episode was first broadcast on Coast Access Radio, a Community Access Media Alliance station amplifying the voices of Kāpiti and Horowhenua. Supported by NZ On Air. Visit coastaccessradio.org.nz
Published: 11/06/2026 11:00:00 a.m.
Navigating Reactions, Mental Health & Finding Guidance( 0:28:35)
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In this episode, Margot unpacks the moments that can feel hardest to navigate. From learning how to deal with reactive people without escalating the situation, to exploring whether depression can feel similar to addiction, we sit in the grey areas that don’t always have clear answers. We also touch on the idea of finding guidance from the Universe, and round things out with some clever, practical tips for packing smarter for your next trip. Margot is our go to for life problems. Listeners are encouraged to write in with a problem they are stuck on, and we will “Ask Margot” to provide sound, real and insightful advice.
This episode was first broadcast on Coast Access Radio, a Community Access Media Alliance station amplifying the voices of Kāpiti and Horowhenua. Supported by NZ On Air. Visit coastaccessradio.org.nz
Published: 28/05/2026 11:00:00 a.m.
Knowing When to Stay or Let Go( 0:28:31)
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In this episode, Margot gets into the questions that don’t have easy answers. From learning when to accept something as it is versus finding the courage to change it, to the complicated pull of going back to an ex… Margot unpacks the emotional grey areas we all face. We also explore how to tell if a first date is actually worth a second, what to do when money suddenly shows up in your life, and, surprisingly, what your fridge might reveal about you.Margot is our go to for life problems. Listeners are encouraged to write in with a problem they are stuck on, and we will “Ask Margot” to provide sound, real and insightful advice.
This episode was first broadcast on Coast Access Radio, a Community Access Media Alliance station amplifying the voices of Kāpiti and Horowhenua. Supported by NZ On Air. Visit coastaccessradio.org.nz
Published: 14/05/2026 11:00:00 a.m.
How Language Shapes Us, Dating Red Flags, and Taking Back Control( 0:29:7)
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How much does language influence who we are and how others see us? Margot explores the powerful role words play in shaping identity and perception, along with how to recognise when a first date may not deserve a second. We also look at how small but meaningful changes can help you regain a sense of control and direction in your life. Insightful, practical guidance to help you reflect, reset, and move forward with confidence. Margot is our go to for life problems. Listeners are encouraged to write in with a problem they are stuck on, and we will “Ask Margot” to provide sound, real and insightful advice.
This episode was first broadcast on Coast Access Radio, a Community Access Media Alliance station amplifying the voices of Kāpiti and Horowhenua. Supported by NZ On Air. Visit coastaccessradio.org.nz
Published: 30/04/2026 11:00:00 a.m.
Moving Beyond “I Can’t”, Letting Go of the Past, and Standing in Your Own Truth( 0:29:49)
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In this episode, Margot responds to listener questions about how to keep moving forward when everything feels stuck, how to handle it when someone assumes the worst of you, and the tricky balance of lending money or working with friends and family. She also explores what it really means to move on from trauma, and why progress doesn’t always look the way we expect. A thoughtful conversation about resilience, boundaries, and finding a way forward when things feel uncertain. Margot is our go to for life problems. Listeners are encouraged to write in with a problem they are stuck on, and we will “Ask Margot” to provide sound, real and insightful advice.
This episode was first broadcast on Coast Access Radio, a Community Access Media Alliance station amplifying the voices of Kāpiti and Horowhenua. Supported by NZ On Air. Visit coastaccessradio.org.nz
Published: 16/04/2026 11:00:00 a.m.
Gratitude, Tough Love and What Really Matters in Life( 0:29:20)
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In this episode, Margot explores how our thoughts can shape both our mindset and physical wellbeing, and why taking control of them matters. Responding to listener questions, she shares practical ways to break out of a slump, how simple gratitude can shift your state instantly, and why “tough love” needs to be personal to truly work. The conversation also looks at what really matters in life beyond success, and a simple approach to teaching children healthy money habits through giving, spending and saving.
This episode was first broadcast on Coast Access Radio, a Community Access Media Alliance station amplifying the voices of Kāpiti and Horowhenua. Supported by NZ On Air. Visit coastaccessradio.org.nz
Published: 2/04/2026 11:00:00 a.m.
Choice, The System and Long Happy Relationships ( 0:29:9)
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This week we answer questions about chemical imbalance and wellbeing, changing the patterns we keep choosing, how much influence the system really has over us and the key to a long and happy relationship.
Margot is our go to for life problems. You're encouraged to write in with a problem you're stuck on, and we will “Ask Margot” to provide sound, real and insightful advice.
This episode was first broadcast on Coast Access Radio, a Community Access Media Alliance station amplifying the voices of Kāpiti and Horowhenua. Supported by NZ On Air. Visit coastaccessradio.org.nz
Published: 19/03/2026 11:00:00 a.m.
The Blue Zone, and Is Love Enough?( 0:28:0)
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This episode we cover questions about longevity in the Blue Zone, whether love is enough, what to ask to be sure you know what really makes your partner tick, how to combat doubt and the 5 love languages in burrito speak.
This episode was first broadcast on Coast Access Radio, a Community Access Media Alliance station amplifying the voices of Kāpiti and Horowhenua, proudly supported by NZ On Air. Learn more at www.coastaccessradio.org.nz
Published: 5/03/2026 11:00:00 a.m.
The Blue Zone and Living Happily Ever After( 0:29:11)
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This week we answer questions about how to live in the Blue Zone, what to do to live happily ever after with your other half, how to deal with friends who don't like it when you do well and how to get rid of money limitations.
Margot is our go to for life problems. You're are encouraged to write in with a problem you're stuck on, and we will “Ask Margot” to provide sound, real and insightful advice.
This episode was first broadcast on Coast Access Radio, a Community Access Media Alliance station amplifying the voices of Kāpiti and Horowhenua. Supported by NZ On Air. Visit coastaccessradio.org.nz
Published: 19/02/2026 11:00:00 a.m.
Your Chosen Person and How to Remember a Name( 0:27:51)
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This week we cover questions about the meaning behind ill health, the single thing to do in order to live happily ever after with your chosen person, how vital self management is and the best way to remember someone's name.
Margot is our go to for life problems. You're are encouraged to write in with a problem you're stuck on, and we will “Ask Margot” to provide sound, real and insightful advice.
This episode was first broadcast on Coast Access Radio, a Community Access Media Alliance station amplifying the voices of Kāpiti and Horowhenua. Supported by NZ On Air. Visit coastaccessradio.org.nz
Published: 5/02/2026 11:00:00 a.m.
The Last Show for 2025!( 0:27:52)
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2025 has come to an end, and it's been a big year. Today, we answer the final questions to round out 2025!
Margot is our go to for life problems. You're are encouraged to write in with a problem you're stuck on, and we will “Ask Margot” to provide sound, real and insightful advice.
This episode was first broadcast on Coast Access Radio, a Community Access Media Alliance station amplifying the voices of Kāpiti and Horowhenua. Supported by NZ On Air. Visit coastaccessradio.org.nz
Published: 25/12/2025 11:00:00 a.m.
Ask Margot - Ep 65 - How Not to Get Hit On or Be Dumped...( 0:27:49)
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Our questions this episode cover how not to get 'hit on' or be 'dumped', how to manage an out of control talker, why we must forgive and the biggest turn-offs for women.
Margot is our go to for life problems. Listeners are encouraged to write in with a problem they are stuck on, and we will “Ask Margot” to provide sound, real and insightful advice.
Published: 27/11/2025 11:00:00 a.m.
Ask Margot Ep64 - Parental Guilt, and the Right Balance( 0:28:31)
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This episode deals with questions about how to handle parental guilt and how to get the balance right between gentleness and firmness, how MRI is a life philosophy, how to recover from a broken heart and what to do when you just don't know what to do.
Margot is our go to for life problems. Listeners are encouraged to write in with a problem they are stuck on, and we will “Ask Margot” to provide sound, real and insightful advice.
Published: 13/11/2025 11:00:00 a.m.
Ask Margot Ep63 - Sticky Life Questions( 0:27:59)
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5 questions to ask yourself to set the flavour of the day, the levers of life to remind yourself of, the right reasons for marriage and how to deal with people trying to ambush your good mood. Many tips and gentle reminders to help us have happy rewarding lives.
Margot is our go to for life problems. Listeners are encouraged to write in with a problem they are stuck on, and we will “Ask Margot” to provide sound, real and insightful advice.
Published: 23/10/2025 11:00:00 a.m.
Ask Margot Ep62 - Stop apologising, make a plan, and how to pray( 0:26:7)
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Today's episode covers questions about how to stop apologising for every little thing, how to pray when you don't know what to pray for, how to never let a kiss fool you and why you won't get to where you want to go unless you make a plan.
Margot is our go to for life problems. Listeners are encouraged to write in with a problem they are stuck on, and we will “Ask Margot” to provide sound, real and insightful advice.
Published: 16/10/2025 11:00:00 a.m.
Ask Margot Ep60 - A tricky ex, mind influences and getting things under control( 0:26:8)
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Dealing with a tricky ex, how your mind can influence your health, how to keep a man (or not) and how to get money under your control are topics for this episode.
Margot is our go to for life problems. Listeners are encouraged to write in with a problem they are stuck on, and we will “Ask Margot” to provide sound, real and insightful advice.
Published: 21/09/2025 12:00:00 p.m.
Ask Margot Ep59 - The Butterfly Effect, Groundhog Day, and Reading Your Body( 0:29:42)
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This episode answers questions involving The Butterfly Effect, Groundhog Day, the dire state of the world and how to read what your body is telling you.
Margot is our go to for life problems. Listeners are encouraged to write in with a problem they are stuck on, and we will “Ask Margot” to provide sound, real and insightful advice.
Published: 7/09/2025 12:00:00 p.m.
Ask Margot Ep58( 0:30:0)
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Margot is our go to for life problems. Listeners are encouraged to write in with a problem they are stuck on, and we will “Ask Margot” to provide sound, real and insightful advice.
This episode we answer what on earth is Quantum Entrainment? How do Universal Laws work and how to deal with terribly annoying people.
Published: 24/08/2025 12:00:00 p.m.
Ask Margot Ep 57 - Love, Life and Death( 0:28:13)
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Margot is our go to for life problems. Listeners are encouraged to write in with a problem they are stuck on, and we will “Ask Margot” to provide sound, real and insightful advice.
Published: 10/08/2025 10:00:00 a.m.
Ask Margot Ep 55 - addressing toxic positivity and diffusing anger( 0:28:53)
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In today's episode we address
- How to diffuse anger
- Toxic positivity
- AI and the need to be discerning and
- maturity in a relationship (how to sort the men from the boys)
Margot is our go to for life problems. Listeners are encouraged to write in with a problem they are stuck on, and we will “Ask Margot” to provide sound, real and insightful advice.
Published: 12/07/2025 12:00:00 p.m.
Ask Margot Ep 53( 0:30:1)
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In this episode we answer questions about:
Science versus the law of attraction
A very persistent health issue
Whether human nature is evolving
How to live in 'the now'
Margot is our go to for life problems. Listeners are encouraged to write in with a problem they are stuck on, and we will “Ask Margot” to provide sound, real and insightful advice.
Published: 15/06/2025 12:00:00 p.m.
Ask Margot Ep 52 - how to deal with people .....( 0:29:41)
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In this episode we answer questions about:
How to deal with people who make you angry
Ineffective affirmations
How to deal with resentment
Whether The Universe has a sense of humour.
Margot is our go to for life problems. Listeners are encouraged to write in with a problem they are stuck on, and we will “Ask Margot” to provide sound, real and insightful advice.
Published: 1/06/2025 12:00:00 p.m.
Ask Margot Ep 51 ( 0:28:51)
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Included in this episode with Ask Margot;
- A new approach to conceiving a babe
- How to know if it's love
- How to deal with fear
- How to attract someone who is available
Margot is our go to for life problems. Listeners are encouraged to write in with a problem they are stuck on, and we will “Ask Margot” to provide sound, real and insightful advice.
Published: 18/05/2025 12:00:00 p.m.
Ask Margot Ep 50 - How to let go of someone( 0:25:56)
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Today Margot covers - Questions about how to let go of someone, manifesting love and reclaiming your power
How to find the way forwardMargot is our go to for life problems. Listeners are encouraged to write in with a problem they are stuck on, and we will “Ask Margot” to provide sound, real and insightful advice.
Published: 4/05/2025 12:00:00 p.m.
Ask Margot Ep 49 - including how to stop being defined by who you used to be( 0:30:31)
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Our questions today are about faith, how to make good decisions, how not to sabotage abundance and how to stop being defined by who you used to be.
Margot is our go to for life problems. Listeners are encouraged to write in with a problem they are stuck on, and we will “Ask Margot” to provide sound, real and insightful advice.
Published: 20/04/2025 12:00:00 p.m.
Ask Margot Ep 47 - manifesting part 2, a key to depression and a perfect first date( 0:27:43)
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My 10 top tips for life, a key to depression, how to manifest part 2, a perfect first date and what to do when you're being belittled.
Margot is our go to for life problems. Listeners are encouraged to write in with a problem they are stuck on, and we will “Ask Margot” to provide sound, real and insightful advice.
Published: 23/03/2025 12:00:00 p.m.
Ask Margot Ep 46 How to feed a toddler and how to manifest( 0:28:4)
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Today's show covers answers to questions about how to feed a toddler, whether Maslow got it wrong, how to manifest and how to spot an emotionally immature person.
Margot is our go to for life problems. Listeners are encouraged to write in with a problem they are stuck on, and we will “Ask Margot” to provide sound, real and insightful advice.
Published: 9/03/2025 12:00:00 p.m.
Ask Margot Ep 44 - stress, social media and life partners( 0:26:29)
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How to deal with stress and the state of the world that seems so dire, how to cope with the demands of social media and what to look for in a life partner.
Margot is our go to for life problems. Listeners are encouraged to write in with a problem they are stuck on, and we will “Ask Margot” to provide sound, real and insightful advice.
Published: 9/02/2025 12:00:00 p.m.
Ask Margot Ep 42 - finding closure, passive aggressive behaviour and oversharing( 0:28:39)
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How to find closure at the end of a relationship, spotting passive aggressive behaviour, the mistake of oversharing and self-sabotaging your health.
Margot is our go to for life problems. Listeners are encouraged to write in with a problem they are stuck on, and we will “Ask Margot” to provide sound, real and insightful advice.
Published: 12/01/2025 12:00:00 p.m.
Ask Margot Ep 41 - multitasking, kissing baby to sleep and shortage of men( 0:27:54)
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This episode covers why we should all be multitasking, how to kiss a baby to sleep, the shortage of men and how to hear from God.
Margot is our go to for life problems. Listeners are encouraged to write in with a problem they are stuck on, and we will “Ask Margot” to provide sound, real and insightful advice.
Published: 29/12/2024 12:00:00 p.m.
Ask Margot Ep 40 - leave the past behind, letting the wrong one go and keep romance alive.( 0:27:18)
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We cover the 80/20 principle, how to leave an unwanted past behind, how to move into a more expansive future, letting the wrong man go and how to keep romance alive.Margot is our go to for life problems.
Listeners are encouraged to write in with a problem they are stuck on, and we will “Ask Margot” to provide sound, real and insightful advice.
Published: 15/12/2024 12:00:00 p.m.
Ask Margot Ep 39 - children and chores, unwanted questions and kissing therapy( 0:29:39)
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Our questions today cover whether children should help with household chores, how to deal with unwanted and impertinent questions, being thought a snob and how kissing therapy will help you live longer.
Margot is our go to for life problems. Listeners are encouraged to write in with a problem they are stuck on, and we will “Ask Margot” to provide sound, real and insightful advice.
Published: 3/11/2024 12:00:00 p.m.
Ask Margot Ep 38 - small talk, hard decisions and loneliness( 0:29:54)
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In this episode we cover questions about how to manage small talk, the Irish goodbye, how to make hard decisions a bit less hard, 'done for you' perfect health and how to handle loneliness.
Margot is our go to for life problems. Listeners are encouraged to write in with a problem they are stuck on, and we will “Ask Margot” to provide sound, real and insightful advice.
Published: 20/10/2024 12:00:00 p.m.
Ask Margot Ep 37 - New business ventures, children saying no, workplace communication and superpowers( 0:29:47)
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This episode we'll deal with questions around how to ensure a new business venture succeeds, managing a child who just says "No!", dealing with workplace communication challenges, and how assigning superpowers to someone can help you remember their name.
Margot is our go to for life problems. Listeners are encouraged to write in with a problem they are stuck on, and we will “Ask Margot” to provide sound, real and insightful advice.
Published: 6/10/2024 12:00:00 p.m.
Ask Margot Ep 36 - Dealing with angry friends, beating jetlag and the mind/body connection( 0:29:46)
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In this episode we talk about how to deal with an angry friend, how to beat jetlag, the mind/body connection around high blood pressure and filtering questions to ask so you find the perfect flatmate.
Margot is our go to for life problems. Listeners are encouraged to write in with a problem they are stuck on, and we will “Ask Margot” to provide sound, real and insightful advice.
Published: 22/09/2024 10:00:00 a.m.
Ask Margot Ep 35 - Inner chatter, first dates and what is a good man?( 0:28:14)
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We're going to cover questions about what to do with the chatter that goes on in our heads that often leads us up the garden path, what to look for on a first date, what Denzel Washington has to say about a 'good man' and how to manage a man's interest and focus as a woman.
Margot is our go to for life problems. Listeners are encouraged to write in with a problem they are stuck on, and we will “Ask Margot” to provide sound, real and insightful advice.
Published: 8/09/2024 12:00:00 p.m.